This past weekend I went to la Fortuna to participate in a workshop called Art for Peace. It’s an event that the PCV’s in my region of Costa Rica put on each year. Volunteers bring elementary/middle school aged kids from their sites and everyone meets up in la Fortuna to have this big day of art. The PCVs set up tables, and the kids rotate from station to station. This year a lunch was also catered from a restaurant in la Fortuna that is run by an ex-pat. The whole event is free for the kids, and they get to meet kids from other parts of Costa Rica. For a lot of them it is the first time they have ever been able to travel outside of their communities. I had a theater table, and we did some improve games. I was nervous about my table at first, because as a rule, Costa Ricans are really shy. I have kids in some of my English classes who are still too shy to talk to me, and school has been in session for almost two months now. But, the kids at the workshop really got into the improve games, and I am thinking it might be fun to start a little theater club for the kids in my town.
I know that when I was a kid I was really shy, and theater really helped me feel more comfortable expressing myself. It sounds kind of dorky, but it’s true. I remember in 2nd grade I was invited to participate in OM – an activity where kids write and produce their own plays – and how acting on stage gave me this structured outlet to express emotions. I got on stage and acted all these things that I was too timid to do in real life. Slowly, the skill transferred from something I did on stage to something I did in life. Because of my experience with acting I changed from being painfully shy to generally shy to slightly shy. I continued with OM all through elementary school, and then did theater in middle school and high school. I still feel like I am shy person, but I tell people that and they laugh at me. I am shy on the inside, maybe, but I have figure out to act like I’m not.
Well, I got to thinking about how successful the one day workshop was, and how a theater club might be a good project to start up here. I have talked to some of the kids about it and they seem interested.
I haven’t written yet about how painfully shy the people in my town are. I am still overwhelmed by it. For instance, I was helping the committee that works with the senior citizens to organize a party. The party is something they do once a year for the senior citizens of Chimurria. They have a little band and music, and it’s just a way for the town to show their appreciation to the senior community. As I was wondering around the day of the party, helping organize things, I ran across a local friend. He is about 50 or so, and had been invited to the party because he had helped the committee a lot over the past year. I asked him if he was going to the party. He said he didn’t think so because he wasn’t used to being out in public like that. He has lived in the town his whole life (the town has a population of less than 600), and is too shy to go to a party for senior citizens because he is embarrassed to be seen by so many people –all of whom he knows and has known his entire life. In this instance the shyness just deters one man from enjoying a nice party, but there are a thousand instance that I can think of where that kind of shyness can have more detrimental effects. Especially for women and girls, who spend almost 90 percent of their time inside the walls of their own home, and are too shy to leave their houses alone.
I was also thinking a theater club might be good for another reason. In Chimurria, the girls and the boys do not play together. If they are playing soccer or baseball, it is always girls vs boys, and they can’t seem to work out how to play together. If it is not girls vs. boys, it is the girls playing one thing and then the boys playing another thing. They don’t have very much successful interaction together. Even in school they sit on opposite sides of the room, and eat on opposite sides of table at lunch time. I would love for them to be able to do something positive together, and to learn how to work with each other.
So, that is my new plan: start a theater club. Well see if it picks up. I hope so.
Back to the Art for Peace workshop:
So, I had a theater table. There was also friendship bracelets, origami, homemade play dough, making wallets from milk boxes, cake decorating, and a few other tables. Around 75 kids came, and I think the workshop was a great success.
After the workshop, a few of the PCVs spent the night in la Fortuna and hung out. La Fortuna is this Costa Rican tourist trap, mostly because of its location. It sits right at the bottom of an active volcano and is surrounded by hot springs. It is the kind of place where you see more tourists than locals. In fact, so few Costa Ricans go to la Fortuna, that the bus to Upala doesn’t even bother to go through it, and we had to catch our bus in a sleeper community about 7k outside of la Fortuna.
Hanging out with PCVs is like magic. Every time I spend time with my peers I leave incredibly impressed by the resourcefulness of my peer group. My friend wanted to make me a birthday cake, but there wasn’t an oven in the hostel. I kid you not, that between everyone we thought of at least 4 different ways to bake a cake without an oven. In the end she put a pot of water to boil on the stove, and put the cake batter in a covered pan over the boiling water. And if it wasn’t the tastiest chocolate birthday cake I ever had.